Whose Opinion Matters?

I, like everyone else who has friends, family, and coworkers, find that I constantly get forceful advice about how I should lead my life. Often times the advice is contradictory to advice/demands I got from someone else.
"You should move out- why is a grown women living with her family?"
"You should stay at home as long as you can, what a wonderful way to be close to your family."
"Why aren't you married?"
"You should get a real job."
"Are you going to do something with your life?"
"You should marry him."
"Oh don't even think of marrying that guy, I don't like him."
I know they are all well meaning, and are trying to help me; because they care, but sometimes hearing peoples opinions expressed forcefully really frustrates me. Why is my job not good enough if I am paid well, enjoy it and have a good position? What if the man I marries, annoys you and a lot of people, but is the man, God has for me?

Which, ultimately gets me to my point- in my life, I would love to be able to please all the people I care about. I would also love if they are thrilled about my decisions. But in the end the one whose opinion matters most? Is God. If I am following his will, well I'm sorry if you don't like my husband, I'm sorry if you don't like what I'm doing with my life. But what matters to him is more important to me. Which, I really hope everyone understands from feeling the same way about their life; because I really hope that they are putting him first.

Books-tool or weapon?

I love to read.
Shocking, I know. Anyone that has been around me long enough or has managed to read my blog or even seen my ever-growing personal collection of books would be able to figure that out.
At times I have loved books for their escapism, others for the imagination or learning I have gotten from reading those wonderful pages. One of my biggest quandaries when it comes to books are those lovely little age-catagories.
When I was a teenager (ok, even before that...) I was an advanced reader. I got the point at the old age of nine that I got quite tired of the 'Boxcar Children' and the fun but cliche plot lines of the 'Mandy' mysteries, so I began exploring more. Well, it is a fact that should be well-known, that a lot of teen or young adult books are fluff, and fluff is so annoying. Yes, I had my classics, and I loved my Jane Austen and Charles Dickens, but occasionally you want an adventure of mystery that isn't completely bogged down with romance or even worse adult topics.
Now that I am older there seems to be so many more authors that can write a pretty awesome book that is both challenging and age-appropriate, and I have to wonder- is there more or am I just a better book finder? What I do think is important though is keeping on top of what book are available and even what ones are popular in the young adult section. I do this for several reasons.
1) I want to eventually write in this age group.
2) I work with this age group and like to know what they are reading.
3) I actually enjoy reading these books. :-)
Many people would argue that you don't need to read the books to know whether or not they are appropriate for young people to read, and to a certain extent that is true. I would not hand my 12 year old brother the Twilight books and expect him to not only enjoy them, but be at the appropriate age to understand the flaws with the books. But having read the Twilight series, I can from a experience stand-point argue why I think they are inappropriate for younger age-groups and what I find wrong with them, rather than have just a basic understanding of what the books are about (said arguments are a whole other post!). So not only am I able to find the 'bad' but sometimes I stumble across books that should be better known and are really really good, and in turn I am able to recommend, praise and even loan them out so that others are able to experience them.
Those books make it worth every time I've read a dud, or rolled my eyes through multiple cliches, or suffered through yet another adventure that devolved into another kitschy romance. That and the excitement I get to experience in others after they read the book and can share in both the ideas and story that captured my attention in the first place.
I think that being able to recommend and proof-read books as an adult is a very important job. What our young friends, younger siblings or even kids is very important and can help them grow as a person and we should care what they are setting before their eyes. As a Christian I am especially cautious about watching out for language or inappropriate romantic developments in a book that I will allow my siblings or friends to read.
I am so thankful though for all the wonderful authors out there that have well-written books that have imagination, a plot-line and characters that are interesting and well-developed. My library looks much the better for them, even though my pocketbook may not!

I am dreadfully behind in both reading and in reviewing the new books, but I saw this book and suddenly wanted to add to my very long and constantly growing list of books I want to read. 

Being a bit of a fangirl of the Doctor (no matter which of the three 'editions' pictured on this cover), I was only stopped by the lack of funds that were in my bank account and also that huge stack of books waiting to still be read. But someday...

The Delightfulness of Allergies

      Growing up I suffered struggled and was otherwise annoyed by many pesky little allergies, nothing ever serious or life threatening, but enough to make certain parts of the year or certain meals a bit harder to be positive about than others (of course the parts of the year include Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter, because having allergies in only one season would be far too mundane for me!) 

But the one thing I swore up and down to never become allergic too... like I had any control over it... was wheat; because I love love love anything to do with bread. I also said even if I DID find out I had such a heinous allergy- that I would continue eating it ANYWAY! No itsy-bitsy side effect would stop me from consuming the deliciousness of baked good and pasta.

So of course I found out I was Gluten Intolerant.

And I couldn't have been happier.

By the point I found out I was Gluten Intolerant, I was ready to skip eating anything if it made the horribleness my health had become to just stop. At that point I had started having migraines every day for weeks and had barely eaten anything in the same amount of time. 

So when a most wonderful lady who has Celiac pointed out the obvious signs, I was overjoyed. Giving up wheat hasn't been all fun, and it certainly can be very hard at times, but there are so many positive things about it. I no longer find it hard to have my daily servings of fruit and vegetables. I no longer have to worry about pounds gained by all the junk food I consumed. 

And besides it could be worse.

I could have been allergic to something in ice cream.

I REFUSE to give up ice cream! 

Well, after a long break I am back and boy do I have a bunch of posts stored up! These past couple of months have been pretty crazy!

1) I started my final year of college! (Yayayayayaya!)
2) Bible quiz started and I am once again a JR High quiz coach; which is both so much fun and sooo exhausting.
3) I had a really rough patch with one of my friends and with God's help we worked it all out.
4) Thanksgiving!
5) Christmas!

I will try to write some more about all those items in their own posts but this is more of a compressive where I've been hiding explanatory post. :-)

My New Shoes

This post is rather belated as I actually got these shoes several weeks ago.

 My absolutely amazing sister recently began painting shoes and painted these for me. :-) I especially love how colorful they are as I really love bright colors as they make me feel so cheerful.

 I have always loved Eeyore and it was for awhile one of my nicknames as we have similar personalities (though I am not gloomy all the time!) So I really love my new shoes! 

   Ever since I got back from China earlier this summer, I set the goal for myself that I would read a book a week. Which in all actuality is not that difficult for me as a faster than average reader and with reading a book a week I still have plenty of time to watch movies, hang out with my friends and siblings, and do all those little everyday jobs that have to be done. Last week I was quite pleased with myself as I read TWO books Chosen by Ted Dekker and Graceling by Kristin Cashore. Just now I just finished this week's book. I Am Number Four by Pitticus Lore. 

While, I was excited to finally read this book as I had been waiting a while for it to come out in paperback, I honestly expected it not be that good. Mainly, though because I wasn't a hundred percent sure it was not written after the movie came out. Much to my surprise I actually really enjoyed this book. For one it was pretty fast paced and while you didn't find out all the secrets of John Smith and his guardian Henri right away you found out enough to keep you interested. My favorite character in the book though was John's beagle Bernie Koster... I know some people might be wondering why a dog was the most interesting character to me, but he actually had quite a character and was important to the plot line. I also was appreciative of the sad sort-of cliffhanger ending. I know I am weird that way but I love when books don't end all happy and perfect as I think that is not really realistic- especially books like this one where the main character is on the run and being hunted. While this book wasn't my original summer reading list, I am glad I got a chance to read it.

Now, to just start next week's book...